One thing that has become more important over time is backing up words with effort. Everyone loves to say they will help or do something, but how many actually show up when it’s time?
Simply put: I think words are useless without action.Â
 As I’m rediscovering who I truly am, I learn that a lot of values I held weren’t mine, they were a result of those who I was surrounding myself with. Some “close” to me have noticed the changes, others haven’t.Â
I used to clamor to be liked. It upset me if people hated me for no reason, but I learned I can’t control how others see me. I can’t control how others speak about me.Â
One thing Mini and I talk about is reputation. The people who run their mouths the most are usually just trying to hide their own inadequacies. Instead of wanting more for themselves, they need to bring everyone down to their level.Â
As W.C. Fields said, “It ain’t what they call you, it’s what you answer to.” Let people talk about you. It’s their problem, not yours.Â